Hello: I am new to this forum. I am in the process of selecting my first topper. I went to the premier wig shop in my town (I live in a large city but there are few shops) I've been there 3 times and my confusion is growing. I need a topper- not a wig. I need to have it virtually undetectable to my clients. I will wear it mostly at work and for social engagements. I do not want/need to wear it at home. My problem is increasing thinness at the crown and some at the back of my head. My questions are: 1. Human hair topper I've selected is about 2000.00 does this seem right? It is not that big or long. 2. How long will the style stay in the human hair topper or is it just like my hair and will need to be styled as much as my hair? 3. Can it be highlighted? 4. There is a remy topper which also looks good. It is about 1300.00 does that seem right? How long will the style last in a remy topper? 5 What is the durability of a human hair topper? Remy topper? 6. Will the remy topper tangle and look bad after a short while? 7.Can you highlight a remy topper? The shop says no. 8. How can I tell if I am really getting virgin european hair? 9 I have a prescription for it but it is just coded for alopecia. My hair loss is partly hormonal, partly genetic, partly due to thyroid. Does anyone know the codes that the insurance companies need to pay for a part of the topper? My company will only reimburse anything at all if the loss is due to an illness or injury-- not premature aging. I am new to this forum. Any guidance is appreciated. I hope to purchase based on your guidance this week if at all possible. I am grateful for your assistance.