Just out of curiosity, and forgive me if this has already been discussed, but I've been wondering for a very long time how women with hair loss feel romantically about those with hair loss? I ask because for me it was always such a big issue for the guys I've dated (and the man I married) to have a full head of hair ESPECIALLY, i believe, BECAUSE of my own hair loss woes...kinda like, because of a survival instinct of whatever. :dunno: then again, i didn't date THAT much and I was in my 20s when I married...still not THAT many guys with hair loss woes in their 20s. but then again, i feel awful for feeling that way; it's such a double-standard and i shouldn't judge or be frustrated by my hubby for losing some hair. :shakehead: my 2 little boys have lovely chestnut brown hair. (hapa hair, i call it, since they have that lovely shade of brown that is so often seen among half Asian, half Caucasian kids.) and then i look at their pretty hair and get this sinking feeling that they'll lose their pretty hair as young adults because of their mama and they'll go through all the anguish i feel. :sobbing: ANYWAY, i just wondered what you ladies' preferences are...for the record, my hubby has a very slightly receding hairline (lil more at the corners) but he has thick, dark wavy/curly hair on top. he has amazing hair to run MY fingers through... :inlove: the last guy i dated before i married him (8 years on Tues!) DEFINITELY had a receding hairline and it was pretty extreme for being 25ish. AND he parted it on the side RIGHT at the peak of the most receded place (the other side was covered by his hair). THAT DROVE ME NUTS but he refused to change his hairstyle when we were dating! We ran into each other a couple years later (I was married to DH at that point), and HE HAD CHANGED HIS HAIR. it was all spiked up like this: :freaked: lol! but yeah, that was kinda irritating that he didn't change it to that while we were together; it was definitely an improvement! okay, so now i'm out of the closet on how shallow *I* can be! :thumbdown2: i'd like to know though: are you ladies attracted to those with hair loss (maybe because of your own?) or unattracted (maybe for the same reason I am), or you couldn't care less whether the people you date/your spouse/your significant other has hair loss or not?