I must admit, I am a hair loss looker. I try not to be obvious. I do not stare, and I do not look at the hair while speaking with the person. I truly believe that no one notices hair loss as much unless you have experienced it. I always ask my husband later if he noticed, and he always says no. I was at a wedding shower yesterday and saw two women with noticeable hair loss. A few more with not so noticeable. All young women.