I hate the ups and downs of hair loss. I see regrowth, but then I see little flimsy hairs falling out that I think are miniaturized. My shed is down but my part, especially right at the front, looks worse than ever. I am tired of waiting to see which way my hair is going to go. Do I go ahead and get a topper now before it gets so bad people notice? What if a topper pulls out my bio hair or I just can't make it work? I am not officially diagnosed, but strongly suspect Androgenetic Alopecia. Do I go to a well know hair loss derm. that is 30 minutes away? If I do I don't want to try Rogaine and Spironolactone. I don't think Rogaine is bad, I just always seem to have reactions and side effects to many meds. Same for Spironolactone. Do I set myself up to accept that this could very well be Androgenetic Alopecia? Which means it will never be better. How can I just sit back and wait for this hair loss to take it's sweet time making up it mind whether it is going to fall out slow or fast, a lot or a little? I hate not being in control of something like this and I hate the unknown. If it is going to be bad at least I can face it head on and accept it. But this not knowing when, where or how much is getting next to me. Sorry to be such a downer today. Maybe it is the all the rain we are having down south here in the States. If anyone has any encouragement or words of wisdom I would LOVE to hear them today.