Not sure if this is where I ought to post this story, but I wanted to share... I had lunch today with a good guy friend of mine who I suspect has had feelings for me for quite some time, ever since we met over here in the UK a few years ago. I am in no way interested in a relationship now, and I have always seen him as just a close friend. But at lunch he said something that made me feel hopeful about men in general. I was telling him that I think my insecurities have caused me to let men walk all over me in past relationships. He asked what I felt insecure about, and I thought what the heck, and I told him my hair had gotten very thin, and might get worse, and I think about how crappy it looks constantly. He said that my hair looked fine to him and that I shouldnt let something like hair make me insecure, which was the response I expected. But then he said "and so what if it does get thinner? cant you just buy some cool wigs and rock those? I can't imagine that any decent guy who pass up dating a great girl because she wore a wig." it really was no big deal to him. Now, I am not about to start dating this guy or anything, but it made my day to hear his response. Maybe there are still some good single guys out there, who will love us and couldnt care less about how our hair looks.