Hi everyone! I am 38 years old, and have androgenetic alopecia. I was introduced to X-fusion about 2 years ago, and it rocked my world! When I came home from the salon, my husband thought I had a wig on. But, after 2 years, I've tired of constantly wiping down my forehead, being afraid of sweating it out, and the mess on the bathroom counters every day! I bit the bullet and used my birthday money to buy my first topper. I ordered it online-without ever trying one on. She came today-and I'm terrified. Of course, she's dark-like my natural color and I'm pretty light right now-since highlights help "fill in" the gaps in my hair. So, on Thursday, I have a hair appointment for a color and a cut-both me and topper. Question is that when I put my topper on, I'm struggling to get it on tight. It's a Jon Renau short hh topper. I notice some of the other toppers have 6-8 clips. This one only has four. Has anyone else added more clips to theirs? Any recommendations? Also, how do I get a part to stay in place? Maybe it's a silly question, but this sucker just will NOT move from where it's parted. Do I need to do that when it's wet? And, can I use a brush on it? What about blow drying and styling? My natural hair is curly, so I'll be straightening my own hair before clipping her on. The good thing is I'll be going back to my natural color, which many people around me have never seen, so they'll prob notice that more than my "new hair." Also, most people don't notice my loss with x-fusion. Thanks for help. I feel like I have so many questions on how to wear it, how to care for it, how to style it...and I don't want to wear out sweet Kathy at Gallery of Wigs.